CUP OF TEA

A person should be thankful if someone admires him...but there are times that a person could get irritated not because he's getting a lot of admirers, but because the people admiring him doesnt know how to understand...simply by READING!!! I just dont know how difficult it is to do that, it wont even take you 5mins or 10mins to do it..Oh and the intention of the admirer...well, ill just post it here so you could find out what it is word for word!

Being a chubby chaser is not that really easy, preference wise. lets put it this way, what will you do if someone asked you to see a movie and deep inside your heart you dont really like it, maybe because of the actors or maybe because you know you'll just waste your time watching it and you just rather stay home and sleep...or what will you do if someone offers you food that you dont really like to eat?

Being a chubby chaser is somehow similar to that, we cant just force our selves to like someone who is not chubby, fat, obese, heavy weight whatever you call it...we can make friends with them but thats it, thats the edge, thats where the boundary should be, no more than that.

In my case, i think im nearly in a state where "i had enough" is about to be triggered. When you see the words HEAVY FAT GUYS whats the first thing you will have in your mind? now add I LOVE in the beggining? what will you have in mind? now lets put it together (im really not sure if i need to do this but i think this is one way for them to understand it) what do you have? I LOVE HEAVY FAT GUYS! again...I LOVE HEAVY FAT GUYS...one last time I LOVE HEAVY FAT GUYS!!! there you go, I LOVE HEAVY FAT GUYS! and thats my nickname in some Gay "DATING" website.

Its just a few weeks ago since i start joining this website..and i got surprised that i am getting some messages, im sure everybody likes it, dont be a hypocrite, somehow in your mind you feel youre admirable or you have these thoughts that someone got interested at you. And so i checked it...and these are some of the messages i stil have on that account...(if you are a chaser, im warning you, youre not gonna like this! dont say i didnt warn you) I'll start from the latest...


(admirers name) here,5ft10.167lbs.married wd kids,athletic,very discreet,balbon,versatile, half gorilla,airforce staff squadron member....im at (full address),pasay....wanna trip?punta ka rito didilaan ko lahat ng butas mo pati na yagbols mo kakainin ko.

HOLY FUCK!!! Thats one hell of an offer, imagine, he has his own place, meaning you wont pay for any motel or hotel and he will do something pleasurable, VERY PLEASURABLE to you! Damn! but im really sorry for my language, since when the fuck does a 5ft10 167lbs became a HEAVY FAT GUY??? HUH? TELL ME? FUCKING TELL MEEEEEEEEE!!! Then i really cant help myself,someone behind my ears told me that its about time to say something and educate them, so i replied back, in a very decent way i can and here how it goes...

Grabe...sarap naman ng offer mo. I hate to disappoint you but is my nickname aint that obvious enough to know what i'm looking for? maybe i should change it to ILOVEOBESEGUYS! sorry but i have no intention to be rude, but please read someones profile first before sending a message..believe me it will save your time.

Isnt that decent enough? any comments? any suggestions? any violent reaction? am i being to rude? pls leave some comments, i would really appreciate any reactions, good or bad ill take it! thats also the reason why i am putting this here.

Anyway, thats just one of the messages that i got from a "HEAVY FAT GUY" ill put some more here so you could read it...help your self out...


This message came from a 6ft 99lbs i believe that is not his weight but he showed me his pic and he looks like 150-ish pounds Check me out . I am an artist too. Is voloptous Boddy would it be fit for you, like mine?

This is also a new one check it out 5'8" 180lbs IM INTERESTED! very seldom to see people like you looking for guys like me.. (his name) here from cubao but in que ave now.. I havent replied yet to him.

A 5'9 185lbs said ... I would love for you to kiss and fuck me all night Dont tell me that aint one hot proposal!


And from a 5'9 i dont know whats his weight but in his pic he doesnt look like one said hey there mr.iloveheavyfatguys,you seem like a nice guy. with nice eyes and a warm smile. wow... =P hope i could hear back from ya. Yes, i am a nice guy, and i am trying my best, thanks, but please, we all know that this is a "dating" site...would you ever date someone you dont like?

i still have some more but its just a simple Hi and Hello and a What's up and a Howdy's and i'm telling you theyre all claiming to be HEAVY FAT GUYS!

And i just thought of an idea to avoid getting messages from some claimers...i managed to change my greeting message from this "I ONLY GO FOR FAT GUYS" into this...

"I ONLY GO FOR FAT GUYS WEIGHING 220lbs (5'4-5'8 in hgt) or HEAVIER.NOTE: PLEASE BE MATURE ENOUGH TO KNOW OUR DIFFERENCES.IF YOU DONT KNOW WHAT A CHUB CHASER IS, GOOGLE IT! I WILL NOT ENTERTAIN ANYONE WHO IS NOT WHAT I HAVE SAID ABOVE."

I think thats good enough to make them realize what i am into...OK i mentioned awhile ago that i nearly had enough...But i have decided i will still log in ON and OFF to that site. I still getting some messages from a few REAL HEAVY FAT GUYS there anyway...so i guess good luck to me if i could get my nice cup of tea



DEFINITIONS:

As for those who DO NOT HAVE an idea what the hell a CHUB is (e.g., those who say that "chub" is different from "obese", etc.), here is what Wikipedia has to offer in describing CHUBS:

"The chubby community is a subculture in the gay community. Chubbies (or "chubs") are gay men who are overweight or obese. Although there is some overlap between the chubby community and the bear community, the chubby culture is its own distinct subculture and community."

"These definitions are general in nature; specific definitions may vary depending on the perspective of the individual.

* Chubby or chub - A chub is defined as a large, overweight, or obese man
* Superchub - A chub who is extremely large
* Bear - a man with a stocky or heavyset build; typically hairy body and facial hair; often older (or older looking) and displaying a masculine appearance and mannerisms
* Daddy - an older man, usually a bear
* Cub - a younger version of a bear
* Chubby chaser - A man who is of smaller body size and/or stature who is sexually or romantically attracted to chubs or bears. The term chaser is used in various communities to describe an outsider who has sexual attraction to people within the community
* Chub for chub (also referenced as chub4chub, internet shorthand) - a chub who is sexually or emotionally attracted to other chubby men
* Girth & Mirth - A widespread name for clubs of big men and their admirers
* Big Men's Club - Another term used to define clubs and organizations for gay and bisexual men and their male admirers

(The terms "chubby chaser" and "daddy" can also be found in use among heterosexuals, but for the purposes of this gay subculture are listed and defined as above.)"